When Hell Gets Nervous...
- Victoria Frederick
- Mar 18
- 4 min read
It's Friday 21st February, 2025 and I have been crying non-stop whole morning! The reasons varied but it started with a statement that triggered a feeling that took me back to a place in my younger years where safety - emotional safety felt like an illusion. Growing up I had people tell me that I liked to argue but I couldn't understand what it was about me that gave them that impression...so I searched myself - was it because I had strong views, or knew how to explain a point well, or stood up for myself and others? Was it because I was not conflict avoidant or understood that some disagreements are necessary? I couldn't figure it out so I internalized it and became insecure about what I had to say. This led to me speaking up less; for myself and others. This led to me not answering questions or asking many for that matter. This led to me second guessing the value of my words...CONSTANTLY!
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